Problems Worth Living For

I write this as we sit in Kingston's Norman Manley Airport, delayed by 3 1/2 hours.  They were kind enough to provide us each $10 food vouchers--which surprisingly goes a long way at the airport here--but doesn't do much to soothe our overall week-end exhaustion.

This has been a phenomenal week--filled to the brim with work projects, team building, time with the residents, and time on the bus taking in the intriguing sites of Jamaica.

That said, no one is particularly annoyed: Iryna and Lindsay are off again on their adventures--this time around the airport; Jordan and Jen are chit-chatting and sharing pictures; Britt and Jess are chilling and watching the futball match that just came on at the bar; I'm reflecting and writing this entry; and Christina, fittingly enough, is sleeping.

We discussed this week that life is not about not having problems; it's about having problems worth living for.  Case in point: being delayed at the airport is annoying, but not something that should knock us off from being awesome.  Working for and with the children of Mustard Seed Communities, on the other hand, is very much a problem worth waking up for each day.

This week is so unique...new friends; new tastes, sounds, and smells; new experiences; new memories.  For you, our readers, maybe not that much new as we had, but uniqueness nonetheless.

And yet all of it only means whatever you want it to mean.

So, make it mean something special.

Thank you all for following our blog this week.  I hope you were inspired by some of our writing similar to how we were inspired by the children and employees of Mustard Seed.

God Bless You All!

Amen.


Andrew (9-Year Veteran)
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Celebrating Jamaica!

After a full week of strenuous work and volunteering, it was finally time time to enjoy the Jamaican beaches.  This was not like any vacation afternoon, but a time for all of us to enjoy a rewarding week and celebrate the accomplishments we all have made.

The team has bonded after spending a full week in close quarters and long days together. It felt like I was simply spending quality time on the beach with people I had been together with for months. As I look around, I see smiles on everyone's faces as they sip their Red Stripe beer with their new found friends who share the same compassion and lust for life.

Iryna and I swam out beyond the ropes to go for a long swim, overcome by laughter as we soaked in the Jamaica sun and try our yoga moves in the ocean. This was followed by a game of dominos with the locals.  Britt (with her Kelly Kapowski bathing suit) and Jordan talked for hours on the shore while Jen lounged on her beach chair.

I have made so many connections with each team member this week and this will always be an unforgettable experience.  I had signed up for this trip last minute and had no expectations. I cannot even describe our days with special needs children/adults, young teen mothers, HIV positive children, and others who have been abandoned due to physical and mental ailments. After dicussing with the other rookies (Britt, Jen & Jessica), we had all put ourselves outside of our comfort zones and embraced an unfamiliar situation. Feeding immobile nonverbal children in chairs had to be one of the most difficult tasks and challenged who I was as a person.  After spending days with these individuals, I will never look at special needs individuals the same.  Every single person I had encountered had a beautiful soul and energy.  Whether verbal, smile, touch or glance, I felt the unconditional love and how special these individuals are.

After many years of philanthropic activities, I am so impressed with Mustard Seed and their programs.  Every resident is cared for and loved in these communities spread across Kingston.  Andrew had done an amazing job keeping us in check and making sure we are always on schedule which had to be a difficult task considering there were 7 girls and himself.  I had the pleasure of meeting the founder Msgr. Gregory who lit up the room with his contagious laugh and overwhelming positive energy.  It gave us a feeling that our work here will really impact and make a difference.

The highlights of the trip had to be the dance parties formally and informally at Jacob's Ladder where we resided.  As soon as Christina played her iPhone reggae playlists, the residents would break out dance moves and grab our hands to join them in festivities. We were included in a Christmas dance party including Elvis Christmas songs as the sun beat down.  Jessica and I had a chance to spend a day with nonverbal young boys in chairs and read stories to them.  The smiles we received were priceless and we were overcome by laughter.

Not only did we spend a beautiful day at a Jamaican beach today, but we celebrated new friendships and the work and love we had given and received to those residing at Mustard Seed.  I do walk away from this experince questioning if perhaps these children had impacted my life more as they showed me unfiltered unconditional love and what life is really about.  I set the intention as I return to NYC to have compassion for all and to quote Bob Marly "One Love."

Lindsay (Rookie)
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Building Stairs & New Friends

Today we were able to continue our work project at Jacob's Ladder. We began the day with daily devotion. It's beautiful to see the residents, staff, and volunteers starting the day off right with devotion and these amazing positive affirmations. A lively resident, Peta-Gaye, lead our group in song and prayer as we sang along to "God is a Good God." After we finished with morning devotion, it was time to work!

We continued our work project on the new stone stairs leading to the farm. After yesterday's much-needed rain, we had some difficulty navigating the soil, but we were able to overcome it. We quickly got back into the swing of things while the Mustard Seed workers, Jordan, Iryna, and I were able to dig out more stairs, while Andrew and Jess filled them with stones so that the workers could later fill each stair with cement. I then learned how to make cement (yes, from scratch--take that NYC!) and we then filled the blocks and holes to create the foundation for the steps. It was pretty amazing to  see what was a barren pile of dirt just 24-hours previously, turn into a cement gravel-paved walkway that can assist Mustard Seed staff and residents to and from the farm area. After our hard work, lunch was much deserved and needed!

We entered the Care Plus Center that was created for the Mustard Seed residents for daily devotion, movie nights, and other activities. Similar to yesterday, the devotion quickly transformed into a dance party. Voices rejoiced, while bongos were played and the residents danced about. It's amazing to see the little amount of effort that brings so much joy to their faces. Jason (one of the residents) and I were dipping and twirling, while Iryna was doing some ballroom dancing and Jordan got a lesson on the bongos.

After lunch, we returned to our work and another project was on the way. Andrew, Jess, Lindsay, Iryna, and Jordan were able to jump right in. Their task was to remove the debris from a new building that is being created for new residents of Jacob's Ladder.  Lastly, we had to put new doors on some of the resident cottages for the residents and the staff.After the projects were completed, we were able to return to our residents for some end-of-day fun. Mustard seed workers and staff played an intense game of soccer (football) in a field while the residents eagerly looked on, cheered, listened to music and danced. What a great way to end the day!

Being a rookie on this trip, I expected a week of hard labor, challenging experiences, and an upset stomach. However, I'm walking away with new friends, a fresh outlook, and an appreciation for every single thing in my life. Even though we just built stairs today, we never know where those stairs can lead and what can come of it.


Jen (Rookie)
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I'll Help You Carry On

Today was the first day that we were able to spend the entire day at Jacob's Ladder--yay no long bus ride! Since we have been getting up early and returning late we also have not gotten a chance to see many of the residents here. I was very happy to see some of my old friends like Sandy, Takeisha, Mary, Laura and many others. We had morning devotion and singing with the residents and caretakers before heading to our day of work. Our work project was building a set of stairs down to the farm area of Jacob's Ladder. We had Andrew, Jessika, Britt, and Iryna digging out the shell of the steps; Christina and Lindsay filling buckets with rocks; and Jen and me taking the buckets down to fill the steps to prep for the concrete. We had an amazing crew of Mustard Seed employees showing us the way.

Our team made fast work of the entire project and moved on to lunch time devotion with the residents. The highlight of the day for the team was definitely the dance party that spontaneously broke out after the devotion. It was a little bit of a slow start with several residents on the stage of the Care Plus Centre but the turning point for everyone was the group sing-a-long to "Lean on Me." And then it really kicked up a notch when "Little Drummer Boy" came on the Christmas in July CD the residents were playing.

Unfortunately we had a bit of rain storm in the afternoon that held up the progress of our work project but we made the best with some team time inside with our adult coloring books. We then headed out into the town of Ocho Rios for dinner. We enjoyed jerk pork and chicken, festival and bammy root along with our Red Stripes and rum punches while lounging under a tropical-looking gaezbo. It was a great opportunity to relax and bond as a team. We have discussed several times that just a few days ago most of us were strangers. But looking at us working to build the steps or cracking up at dinner someone would think we have been lifelong friends. I think we'd all agree we now have 7 additional people to "lean on."

Jordan (7-Year Veteran)
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A Special Day

Today was another special day in Jamaica.  I say "special" because while there is no word to describe this experience, it is the closest one I can find.  We awoke bright and early and boarded our bus to head to Kingston to visit the Mustard Seed headquarters called My Father's House.  Just like the rest of the Mustard Seed properties, it was a beautiful place with the sounds of children echoing through the halls.  Our visit started in the gift shop where we had the opportunity to purchase pottery, ceramics, and banana leaf holiday cards made at Mustard Seed, the proceeds of which support the organization.

We were given some delicious Jamaican coffee and were able to have a nice visit with Msgr. Gregory, the founder of Mustard Seed.  As we have seen with the rest of his team, he was extremely approachable and welcoming.  After immediately recognizing the veterans of our team, he gave a warm welcome to each of the first-timers of the group, Jessika, Jen, Lindsay, and me.  A tour of the facility took us to the home of 96.1, the Roots FM.  This is Mustard Seed's community radio station and we were all happy to hear we can listen to it on the internet when we are back in New York.

Next stop, Jerusalem!, a fantastic compound with several housing developments, a farm with goats, chickens, two fish ponds with tilapia, a school, and a chapel.  Yes, it is called "Jersualem!", with the exclamation point.  Iryna, Jessika and I jumped right into our part of the project with our new friends Cedric and Dom as the muscle.  We were cleaning out one of the storage barns and our job was to separate the "good" from the "bad" doors.  It took us a few minutes but we got the hang of it.  We finished up the work project and headed to the chapel for midday devotion with the administrator of Jerusalem!, two residents, and our security escort, Bashy.

Andrew didn't miss a chance to eek out one last work project before joining the group for the end of our tour.  Then it was the time we waited for all day... time to play!  Jessika and I had a parade in the pavilion with a few of the kids while Iryna and Jen helped the Aunties feed the residents.  Jordan and Christina took every chance they could to visit with friends they have created relationships with over the last 7 and 9 years, respectively, that they have been coming on this trip.  We headed over to Martha's House and one of the girls, Monique, was kind enough to design me a beautiful shirt to wear tomorrow.  Lindsay was schooled by the children on how to make rubber band bracelets, happy with herself once she caught on.  One thing that has struck me each time we do arts and crafts is the pride the children have in their country.  They love to draw the Jamaican flag or the Doctor Bird, the official bird of Jamaica.  I have a new affinity for green, yellow, and black!

In our reflection tonight as a group we talked about making an impact on the lives of others.  While we all discussed the ways in which we like to think we impacted the lives of the children of Mustard Seed, we also believe that the greatest impact taking place this week is the one that they have had on us.  I am grateful for the Mustard Seed team and the residents of all ages we have met this week. Thank you to them for truly impacting me and reminding me of all the good in this world.


Britt (Rookie)
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Hello from Sunny Jamaica!

This post is from Monday.  Since we arrived to Kingston, Jamaica, we have had some problems with the Internet. The good news is that it should be fixed now.  This is no guarantee but it might happen. ;-)

Mark Twain once said: "Life is a book and those who don't travel only read one chapter".

I would say: "Life is a book and those who haven't been on a missionary trip have to try it once. Otherwise, their book will miss one of the chapters".

It was a fabulous start of the day! Lindsay and I were up at 5 AM. So, it gave us enough time to enjoy morning yoga and savor every moment of it!

After that all the team met in the common area for a light breakfast that included Jamaican coffee, Nutella, and some other snacks. Then Andrew  reminded us about today's agenda and we were ready to kick off the daY!

It was around 6:30 AM when we left Jacob's Ladder (the place where we are staying). It was cool and peaceful outside. We got to the bus and Lorenzo (our driver on this trip) took us to the other part of the island. I was savoring my ride to our next distination.

Looking through the window, inhaling fresh air, listening to Caribbean music and being surrounded by the mountains was a part of our morning journey.

Then we arrived to Sophie's Place and children were just so ... loving! Even though most of them have a very severe disability, I was amazed how one simple touch can put a smile on their faces. That moment brought a radiant happiness to my life!

I was also surprised how quickly Lindsay, Britt, Jen, and Jess became PROs communicating with children! Their unconditional love for the Mustard Seed children, and their total acceptance and support of them, lit up my own soul!

Our veterans: Christina, Jordan, and Andrew were very happy when they came back to "their children". I can still see Christina making up a story on-the-fly about Zazu the rabbit and Jumpy the lamb for Donovan and Tiara. I was inspired by just sitting there and letting Tiara (a lovely three-year-old girl) brushing my hair while we both listened to Christina's story.

And it's not even the end of it, we have spent some time doing outside work as well. The whole process of moving rocks and painting walls under Andrew's and Jordan's supervision brought us even closer together as a team! And it was a good work out for all of us ... busy New Yorkers (yes, I'm going to include myself into this category as well). Haha

After Sophie's Place, we headed to Mary's Child to visit teen moms and play with their newborn babies. Chatting with young moms and soon-to-be moms was an experience itself! What I didn't expect is to hear from 13 year old pregnant Jamaican girl saying something like this: "I'm not sure what exactly I want to do in life but if I can choose any profession, I would love to be an architect and have a team who will help me to design skyscrapers. Also, I want to travel the world and see different places. In the meantime, I love to draw, play cricket, and soccer! And yes, I love to swim and I want to learn how to surf. Do you surf?"  I was completely speechless and ask her how she feels about having a baby at such a young age. She said: "I'm not totally happy now but (she paused here) I will be for my baby!" I was very glad that I had a big bag of stuffed toys, some clothes, and souvenirs with me. Every girl had an opportunity to choose something for herself. During half an hour that we were in the living room of St. Mary's facility, girls kept us company and seemed very pleased with our presence. I have savored every single moment of that interaction.

On our way home, we stopped at Mega Mart (a supermarket similar to Costco in the U.S.)  and bought dozens of Jamaican coffee, sauces, and spices. So, my dear friends, I can't wait to invite you for a cup of coffee or tea when I'm back to New York, and share with you even more stories about our Jamaican trip.

Love,
Iryna (2nd Year Veteran)

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Checking In!

Hi Everyone!
We are spending the week up at Jacob's Ladder--Mustard Seed's large facility in Ocho Rios.  Unfortunately, being up in those fantastic mountains means very unpredictable internet--which is why our posts have been few so far!

We had Iryna's post good to go last night, and then I forgot my laptop this morning so that we could post hers.  Look for that soon!

Everyone says hello to everyone they've ever loved (they all neglected to pitch in as they are exhausted and enjoying some morning coffee ha ha).

Andrea, we are thinking about you and wishing you a smooth recovery.

Riley: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Love you all!
Andrew

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Best Weekend Ever

Meeting at the airport was the first time our team finally met as a whole!  With all the prep work and fundraising over the past several months, we couldn't belive we were finally ready to go!  After a quiet, sleepy flight we made it to Kingston--and the heat was a bit of a shock to our bodies.  Smooth sailing through customs and a long drive towards Jacobs Ladder brought us to a beef patty rest stop.  Once getting to Jacob's Ladder we were instantly greeted with smiling faces from the residents here.

Our team is four vetrans (Andrew, Jordan, Christina, and Iryna) and four rookies (Jessika, Jen, Lindsay, and Britt).  While the veterans know what to expect, the rookies are experiencing everything for the first time.  The anticipation leading up to meeting the residents quickly vanished. As soon as we stepped out of our front door the residents were coming right up to us, giving hugs and being curious about who was staying at their home. Although like with any new situation there was a little hesitation at first, once a resident grabs your hand or gives you a hug and a laugh the fear of what you have not experienced before completely disappears.

After a tour of Jacobs Ladder, which is always expanding and growing in projects, we enjoyed some social time in the gazebo.  Some friendly chat and sharing quickly turned into a dance party!  Andrew's speakers and Christina's DJing skills got the residents very excited.  Britt and Jordan were quickly wisked to the dance floor for a slow dance and a tango.  Jen and Iryna were nearby, playing with the residents on the swing set.  Lindsay and Jessika slowly acclimated to their new surroundings by chatting with a few residents over their hobbies and favorite activities. A new four-legged friend also joined the party with a little incentive from the resident--grabbing bread from the kitchen.

With a long day of travel behind us we all enjoyed some much needed sleep.  Being renewed and restored we all woke to a wonderful breakfast made by Kevin.  Kevin is our missions team representitve and is part of our MSC team, along with Bashy our security guard and Alonzo, our driver.  We enjoyed some pancakes, eggs, sausage, bananas, and Jamaican Blue Mountain coffee.  Sunday mass was in nearby Ocho Rios at Our Lady of Fatima Roman Catholic Church.  The parish greeted our group with open arms. The view surrounding the church was complemented by the loving community inside. It was a wonderful experience felt by those who practice Catholicism and those who do not.

It was soon time for another long ride in the bus. We were on our way to Matthew 25:40 in which Lindsay took in all of the scenery of Jamaica while most others took a nap. The community of boys was highlighted by the veterans of the the group as one of the best days of the trip. When we arrived the boys were ready to start playing! Some veterans said hello to those they had made connections with in prior years while the newbies adapted to the high energy of the group. Andrew, Iryna, Jessika, Lindsay, and Jen quickly began playing some soccer and frisbee with the boys.  Christina, Britt, and Jordan had a chance to chat with some of the boys and enjoy some coloring and balloon-blowing fun.

The visit to Matthew was shorter than usual because we are actually staying at Jacob's Ladder, instead of the usual Sophie's Place, because of renovations going on at Sophie's.  This means a long hour-and-a-half drive home.  After some quick showers we enjoyed another wonderful home-cooked meal.  Andrew was especially happy with the "Jamaican chicken" that he looks forward to each year.

During some refleciton time the recurring theme was the simplicity of sharing love with people who were strangers to most of us.  Our visit is short, but the impact is big.  We all hope the simple pleasures we experienced today will stay with us long after this trip because today's lesson is one to remember.

The weekend has passed and initial meetings have been made, it is time to start the work week. We will be finding our way to Sophie's Place and Mary's Child on a bright and early Monday.

Christina (9-year Veteran)
Jessika (Rookie)

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